Impulsivity, Poor Planning & Procrastinating Working For You?

Are you like the millions of other adults who have a full schedule and are regularly challenged by symptoms of ADHD? If so, then constant distraction, procrastination, and poor time management are among the obstacles you face daily.

What's happening?

What’s happening?

 

While one area of your life might be managed very well (by using all of your energy to stay focused), other areas are drastically affected and suffer. Everyday social relationships can become so painful that you find yourself with no hope, desperate and aching to do something, anything, different.

Diagnosis of ADHD

For starters, don’t try to diagnose yourself. “ADHD is a misunderstood diagnosis even in the modern age,” says Dr. Anthony Rostain, MD.

Not only can ADHD symptoms mimic other disorders, ADHD can also co-exist with those same other disorders. Only by sorting through these sneaky partnerships can you choose the best, most effective, treatment for you.

Rostain, “There are a lot of myths and skepticism that want to cast doubts on the validity of the diagnosis”. CHADD, the leading national organization for Children and Adults with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, maintains a website that both validates ADHD is a real disorder and provides evidence that it can be treated effectively. It will help you dispel the myths and silence the skeptics.

A clear diagnosis will pinpoint the troublesome symptoms that are unique to you.

Many of these symptoms are centered in an area of our thoughts labeled as “Executive Functions.” Executive Functions (EF, for short) form the governing body of the average human mind. EF involves your brain’s ability to absorb, process, and interpret incoming facts and then make a decision on how best to proceed.

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Coaching Is A Process

I’m always being asked, “What is ADHD coaching? Is it therapy?”  And more often than not, I find myself repeating that coaching is NOT a replacement for psychotherapy. Most psychotherapy can only move as fast as it takes for the patient to deal with the source/origin of their problems.

Rainbow 9-6-2014-2Coaching enters as soon as a person becomes aware that a challenge exists and they want to discover and learn new skills to manage it. For individuals with ADHD, this can be a deficit on Executive Functions.  A coach may team up with a psychotherapist since that enables a coach to develop and update a “game plan” for the client.

In his book Foundation of Coaching, James Flaherty describes coaching as a learning experience as the client’s observation of their performance is a “discipline that requires fresher, innovative, and relentless correction according to the outcomes being produced.”

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